Feb 12, 2006

Personal stuff Update

Well, I decided to give her a call today. I talked with her for a bit and before I could mention going out and doing something, she started telling me about this new guys she recently met this past week or so and that she spent the day with him yesterday and had a good time. Also started telling me about how much she likes him and that she'll be ok. Then she started telling me I can call her whenever and that we can still be friends.

I'll never know why girls do stuff like that to guys. She might as well called me her brother.
Anyways, I'm going to *try* and be happy just being her friend. I've never really been able to be friends with girls I'm attracted to, especially if we're both single but I'm going to try.
I am sincere when I say I want to know her better. For now I'll just try to stay positive.
Thanks again for the advice,

10 comments:

Langdon Alger said...

better a platonic relationship than nuthin right?..or maybe not..but atleast you called..imagaine if you didn't?...you'd probably wind up banging your head against the wall for not trying...like when Miki Fujimoto told me to call her so we can hang out and I didn't....man, I totally regret that!..stupid stupid stupid...

Terrence Maddox said...

Oh well...stick around if you can put up a good face whenever she talks about other dudes. Worse case scenario: she's your friend. Best case scenario: She goes through a few zeros before she gets with the hero.

Son of Gigan said...

I hate to be the bearer of bad news. Well, no, I actually kinda like it, but you need to forget about this one. Being platonic with a girl you're attracted to brings nothing but suffering. The fact that she's already telling you about another guy that she likes means one of two things:

1. She's lying about that guy and wants to scare you off.

2. She doesn't mind telling you because she's not worried about scaring you off. Think about it - if you're single and a girl you're really into calls you up, are you going to tell her about some OTHER girl that you're attracted to, or went out with?

Unfortunately, when you reach the point of the relationship that you're in, you may as well be one of her girlfriends or her sister. And even if you wait for her to be single (and it may be a LOOONG wait), whe she's looking for a new guy, she won't even consider you because that would "ruin your friendship." It's harsh. It's brutal. It's unfair. But it's the truth. You'll only do more damage to yourself by continuing to talk to her. You're much better off ditching that broad and watching porn. HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY!

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JuanJohn said...

ahhh, this is all so hard. I get what you guys are saying and I'm happy that I did ask least try and give her a call.
I have another girl I am going to go on a date though, so its ok. Don't have space to really talk about how I met her but I'm going to try and go on a date with her this week if I ever get a damn day off!!!
I'll probably try and do something at least once with the original girl just because I said I would.

Langdon Alger said...

don't listen to Gigan...he's never even touched a girl!...touched one that he hasn't paid at least...

Tsuji Eriku said...

Dude don't knock paying for sex man. It's "da bomb."

Son of Gigan said...

Trust me young ones, there's NO girl that you don't have to pay for attention. And if you want "true love," you'll pay EVEN MORE.

My whole point is - if you have to wonder if a girl likes you or not, she doesn't like you. If she does, she will let you know one way or another.

Tsuji Eriku said...

I just show them my junk if they scream "eeew gross" then run away then I know for sure they don't like me. But if she stays....oooooh la la. Paying for sex is "da bomb" this reminds me of my little whore mongering adventure on Valentine's Day 2004. I'll save that story for another time.

southerncaligirl said...

The platonic relationship thing won't work. Especially if you are attracted to her. It will only piss you off if she mentions a new guy.