Hello all,
Now I normally keep the personal stuff to my own blog but I wanted some opinions. So I decided to post my latest blog here. I've known this girl for maybe 3-4 weeks. She started working with me and I instantly fell in love. (well, not real love but I thought she was pretty cool(^_^)
anyways, I later find out she has a boyfriend that she maybe met a week or two before me. Now she suspects him of cheating with his ex so she is thinking about moving on. Now I thought I had no chance with this girl until she asks me out!!!
Very non-chalantly, she asked me my plans after work today and if I wanted to go with her for some drinks after work. I was shocked but managed to cough out a "yes, sure" or something like that.
To be honest thats the first time that's happened to me but here is my problem. Right before we we're supposed to go out tonight, she was fired!
For something stupid that wasn't even her fault, and I was no where around when they fired her. So when I came out of the kitchen she had gone because she was upset.
So do I give her a call or not since she still does have a boyfriend and really didn't give me her number. My boss gave it to me. I feel wierd about the whole thing.
what do you all think?
2 comments:
nevermind what Terrence thinks..you should call her, since she left work "upset," you can always call and say that your just "checking up on her and seeing if she's alright."
Do you know her boyfriend? Can he kick your ass? If the answer to my last question is yes, then I would say to hell with it because unless you can be sure that you can spark something with her it's not even worth the drama. Traditionally Otaku anime nerds are not good at fighting. The exception of course is me because I kick alot of ass on many levels. Also I have heard from many women that being a tattle tale player hater can be a turn off. Meaning if you were to be hella nice to her & just verbally bash her boyfriend you could be doing more harm than good for YOURSELF. Of course if you GENUINELY value her FRIENDSHIP then go after her & make sure she's ok man. These pearls of wisdom are free of charge THIS TIME, ja ne.
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